I think that as women, we get married with lots of expectations. Men too. However, with time, we start getting a clear picture of what life truly is. Having kids and raising them is hectic. Chores are hectic especially if one party does 95 percent of it. However, I think that at the end of the day, we can have it all. It may just not be according to how we initially planned. It's tough giving so much sacrifice when you have your dreams lined up, however, it's a process that will yield greater fruits.